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I am familiar with “san” and and “sensei”** and their basic use but the ones I’m curious about I’ll list below. I know its quite a list but I’m mostly looking for an understanding of what they mean and how they relate to ones name and the relationship it might place between that person and the one using it.
Here’s how I understand it:
This I think is geek-speak. The only time I’ve heard it is the anime/pasokon otaku subcultures. (note: -tan is a “cutesy” suffix derived from -chan)
Very common for younger girls/females close within your social circle that are younger than you. I’ve seen it used with boys too in really familiar situations.
For boys and young men. Sort of like the yang to -chan’s yin. Bosses will use it a lot for their inferiors as well.
-sempai / -kōhai
Mentor & Pupil. Sempai is typically someone a year ahead in school, filling sort of a “big brother” social role for kōhai.
This is often “Mr,” and you’ll see on the news and in papers. It’s used to denote a name without applying any particular sort of respect to it, while at the same time avoiding disrespect by having no suffix.
This is a very polite suffix, indicating a great deal of distance between the speaker and listener (for instance, a salesperson addressing a customer will use -sama). It is also used as a form of address in letters and the like.
**Note: In case anyone is wondering, -san is a commonly-used polite name suffix similar to “Mr.” or “Mrs.” that is commonly used after both first and last names. The suffix -sensei is used for professionals such as teachers an doctors. This can be used after first and last names, and it can also be used by itself to address someone.
Thank you Psy for the explanation!
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